Being a stay-at-home parent is a full time job, one that is often undervalued. The American website Salary.com calculates the average “Mom Salary” each year, estimating a stay-at-home mum’s (or dad’s) worth in 2016 at just over $143,000 USD, or about $196,000 NZD. Whilst the roles presented may not reflect every parent’s daily life, this research can get people thinking about the work their loved ones do and the value they bring to their family.
What do stay-at-home parents do?
Stay-at-home parents, or SAHPs, wear a number of different hats. They are typically the primary caregiver for their children, but may also fill this role for their spouse, a parent, or another family member. This often includes managing everyone’s schedules and arranging transportation to and from appointments and events.
SAHPs are frequently responsible for housekeeping—laundry, sweeping, washing dishes, taking out the bins, and any other cleaning jobs. And those are just the things that need doing inside the house! A stay-at-home parent may also do the gardening and car maintenance, or be in charge of arranging these services with professionals and supervising their work.
There’s also cooking and everything that goes with it. SAHPs plan weekly meals, pack lunches, and prepare breakfasts and dinners. They may also do the bulk of the household’s grocery shopping, which can include reviewing weekly adverts to find the best deals. This often means working within a household budget, juggling multiple financial priorities and making sure the bills are settled each month.
Of course, this is only a small sample of what SAHPs do on any given day. They may also check homework, provide minor first aid, plan birthday parties, prepare taxes, coach a youth sport team, fix a leaky faucet…
So the question should really be, “What don’t stay-at-home-parents do?”
Life insurance for stay-at-home parents
Families often overlook taking out a life insurance policy on a stay-at-home parent, simply because they do not bring in a paycheck. However, the true value of a SAHP may not be clear until you consider how your family might cope if they were no longer there.
It’s not an easy thing to think about, but if your partner were seriously injured or passed away suddenly, your financial situation would likely be impacted. Childcare and sitters may be needed during school holidays or in the evenings once you return to work. A housekeeper might be needed to keep on top of laundry and cleaning. You could also find yourself spending more on take-out dinners or pre-packaged snacks during busy times of the year.
Even if a stay-at-home parent doesn’t bring in a traditional salary, they do make a tangible financial contribution to the family. Covering him or her with a life insurance policy may make sense to help ease the financial burden created by their loss.
Show some appreciation
For all the work stay-at-home parents do, they don’t always get the recognition they deserve. Mums and dads working in the home are “on call” 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Their job is to keep their family happy and healthy, in part by insuring the household runs smoothly. It can be easy to forget how much needs to be done every day to maintain this domestic bliss.
Showing your appreciation of a stay-at-home partner can be as simple as regularly thanking them for all they do. And some help with the dishes after dinner goes a long way, too!
Thinking of covering your partner? Contact Momentum Life today for a no-obligation life insurance quote!